We all want the best for our little ones. We’ve already looked into letting their personalities shine, but that’s not the only thing we need to consider. It’s also important to ensure our children are reaching their full potential. That’s not to say that you need to become a pushy parent. We’re talking about knowing what our kids are capable of achieving, and ensuring they’re given a chance to achieve it. These early years are crucial for development. Nurturing your child in the right areas now can make a huge difference to their later lives. No pressure! So what can you do to ensure your little one gets off to the best possible start?
RESEARCH KINDERGARTENS
Kindergarten is going to be where your child first starts to learn. Making the right decision is crucial. There are so many options available that the choice can seem overwhelming. Keep in mind your child’s requirements to help you narrow down the search. For the intelligent child, look for a kindergarten that specializes in teaching. Some kindergartens already teach foreign languages, and other fascinating lessons to nourish that seed of learning. If your child is more creative, a kindergarten with extensive arts and crafts activities would be better suited
SOCIALIZATION
Socializing your little one is crucial in their development. If they miss out on socialization at this stage, how can they be at ease around people as they grow older? Children at this age haven’t developed the social hang-ups that develop over time and will play with anyone. Make sure you take every opportunity to let your child socialize. Playing with someone their age can help a child get an idea of what kind of person they are. Remember, they’re still learning about that too! There are so many life lessons that can be learnt through play. This is the way your child will learn to share, empathise and understand their friends.
PRAISE YOUR CHILD
Praising your child’s hard work is crucial. If their achievements are met with indifference, they’re sure to become disheartened. If your child discovers they have a creative streak, and covers the kitchen table in a mess every time you turn your back, so be it. Nourish their ability. Tell them often how proud you are of the things they are making and of how much work they put into it. Children are desperate to please, and parents are usually the first place they look for approval. Don’t stop your child from doing something positive that they love. It could end as the thing they go on to do for the rest of their life.
SET GOALS
Setting goals together can be an excellent way to channel your child’s ability. You don’t want to pile on the pressure but setting something like two to three weekly goals with your kid can be such a positive influence in their lives. Keep the goals small. Maybe say you’ll learn one new thing together every day. Small goals can create a great sense of satisfaction and achievement with little effort. You could even set up a star chart system for when they reach the goal. Kids love stickers, and seeing their chart fill up will be a fantastic incentive. Setting goals early in life helps your child to learn to plan ahead and develop self management skills that will last a life time.